H&S: Know your wedding budget. Don't waste your time looking at or for vendors if you don't even know if you can afford their services. You can disappoint yourself, other vendors won't measure up because you like the out of reach vendor so much. IF the vendor is to costly, move on! Don't fool yourself or others. Don't think they will drop their price just because they don't fit into your budget. And don't bury yourself in debit just to get married!!
Be honest with yourself and with your vendors.